In reflecting on the journey of marriage, from the early days of passionate love to the heartbreaking distance that can sometimes develop, it becomes clear how easily relationships can shift from vibrant connection to mere routine. This same dynamic is possible in our relationship with Christ, both individually and as a church community. The early church in Ephesus, despite its remarkable spiritual heritage—having been founded by Paul, pastored by Timothy, and shepherded by the apostle John—was not immune to this drift. Even with such a strong foundation, Jesus’ words to them in Revelation 2 reveal a sobering truth: it is possible to lose our first love, to let our devotion become a matter of habit rather than heartfelt affection.
The city of Ephesus itself was a bustling, influential center, home to one of the wonders of the ancient world, the temple of Artemis (later Diana). The church there was not a single building but a network of house churches, deeply rooted in the teachings and presence of some of the most significant leaders in early Christianity. Yet, Jesus’ message to them was not just a commendation of their good works and spiritual pedigree, but a call to remember who truly holds authority over the church—Jesus Himself, the one who walks among the lampstands and holds the messengers in His right hand.
This image of Jesus as the ever-present, authoritative Lord of the church is both comforting and challenging. It reminds us that no matter how strong our history or how well-structured our community, our true foundation and ongoing vitality come from Christ alone. He is intimately aware of our lives, our gatherings, and our hearts. The call is to return to the passionate, covenantal love that first drew us to Him, to resist the drift into spiritual autopilot, and to remember that our relationship with Christ is meant to be living, vibrant, and deeply personal.
